tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5919800139820870104.post8099227465351232812..comments2023-10-05T07:10:11.668-05:00Comments on Sunset Pig: I’ve had the blues, the reds and the pinks…Lisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10797420534168841098noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5919800139820870104.post-66011532022036056192007-11-08T13:47:00.000-05:002007-11-08T13:47:00.000-05:00you are echoing various sentiments I have been str...you are echoing various sentiments I have been struggling with. Somehow, naively, I thought that things would get "better" as I got older, I would have more understanding, more patience, more compassion... and sometimes I do.<BR/><BR/>But I continue to be bewildered by the, uh, "evolution" of many of my relationships. Those I once sought for support are now anything but support (and sometimes french panichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08387613398913818918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5919800139820870104.post-19945009076294164132007-11-06T02:39:00.000-05:002007-11-06T02:39:00.000-05:00I'm not sure we ever truly get over a failed marri...I'm not sure we ever truly get over a failed marriage but it is possible to move on. There is danger in the blame game - whether we blame ourselves or the other partner - the responsibility for the failure is shared even if the catalyst was caused by one.<BR/><BR/>Don't worry about turning 40 - now 50, which I reached in July - well that;s another story. :)Lozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10513517402604501840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5919800139820870104.post-57768434778218066062007-11-05T22:14:00.000-05:002007-11-05T22:14:00.000-05:00goood post.anxiety does look a lot like devotion. ...goood post.<BR/><BR/>anxiety does look a lot like devotion. and you're right... it's not just marriage. it's love. <BR/><BR/>ugh.<BR/><BR/>i suppose i should put something bubbly here and talk about enlightenment or differentiation or individuation...<BR/><BR/>but i'm tired. and a lifetime just does NOT seem long enough to reach these things. <BR/><BR/>oh, wait. i do have something semi-upliftingmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11731917839844470875noreply@blogger.com